Proverbs 13:18 (NLT): "If you ignore criticism, you will end in poverty and disgrace; if you accept correction, you will be honored."

Growing in God includes receiving constructive criticism from those who are mature in the Lord and have our best interests at heart. When you accept correction and advice that is given in love, it will sharpen your senses to discern things of the Spirit more accurately and develop you to become more like Christ. On the other hand, if past disappointment has caused suspicion and mistrust to cloud your judgement, you could see the criticism as being a personal, negative attack. Your misconception of correction can cause you to become offended and cynical, which only stunts your Christian growth - instead of propelling it. Allow the Holy Spirit to heal your soul from any root of disappointment from the past so you can allow trusted friends and leaders to build into your life. The results will be abundantly evident and you'll be walking in a new maturity in the things of God that He has prepared and planned for your life.